Valuing your time is one of the most important parts of dating. This is why I always stress cooperation. If a woman is not bringing 100% cooperation to the table, fuck her. A new girl turns 18 every few seconds. Never waste time with maybe women. Never waste time with a chick that has a dude. I see that happening a lot lately. Don’t hit me up asking me how to steal her from her man. I don’t do women with boyfriends and you shouldn’t either. Respect the game guys. If she says she has a dude, charge her. If she’s doing that to test you, charge her. Remember 100% cooperation at all times. The best way to value your time when online dating is to know what to look for in her profile. I shouldn’t have to say this but if she has no words on her profile or the goofy drggutdg, gyrfhhhg,…….., move on. She’s just looking for followers and attention. Ok, let’s start with the profile of a girl that I wouldn’t message:
“Oh hey, my name is Melissa. If you’re messaging me to be an idiot… Don’t…If you have a selfie with your shirt off, I probably won’t message you back. First things first: Uhh I’m a tad bit obnoxious & a lot bit sarcastic. I love to laugh & i try not to take life too seriously. I dont play head games &I don’t do drama. Okay, now that that’s done:22(Leo) yes I’m stubborn, but you can deal with that. I have a beautiful son (2yearsyoung) I am a FULL TIME single mother and I was married once before…My loves:Tattoos, Atlantic City, Instagram, New Jersey House Wives, smoking weed, parting with my girls. Don’t just message me for sex. I’m not that type of girl. I’m tired of guys hitting me up for sex. For everyone else feel free to Message me :)”
For me this screams everything that I don’t deal with when it comes to women. I always follow a three strike program when dealing with women. This helps me maintain standards. My first strike is that she has a kid, second is that she was already married and the third strike is that she likes to smoke weed. She gets another strike for bragging about being obnoxious and sarcastic. She gets another strike for having a horrible profile. I’m pretty sure a lot of you see profiles like this all the time. STAY AWAY!
Now let’s look at a profile that I would message:
“I’m a simple women looking for happiness. For the most part I would say I am outgoing, considerate, fun, kind, down to earth and I love trying new things. I spend most of my free time reading, working out, or hanging out with friends. My favorite restaurants are Sushi, Thai and Mexican. I’m not really into any sports and I don’t watch them. Looking for a guy with a great sense of humor, who takes care of himself, is physically fit. Not a body builder but definitely eats well and is not over weight. I like intelligence, a man who can express himself, is friendly, and respectful. I believe in surrounding myself with positive happy people with positive energy. Anything else you’d like to know just ask but please don’t make it an interview. No one likes going on them in real life. We go through that dreadful process when we have to. It would be nice if the conversation was enjoyable and had a natural flow to it.”
Now this is more my speed. I like the way she describes herself. Nothing about being sarcastic or sassy. Nothing about her love of partying with the girls. Nothing about being an alpha female. Wait, what does an alpha female mean? Sounds like a woman who is trying to act like a dude. Also, I’m all about women reading and intelligence. History is my favorite subject. Overall this is the profile of a girl I think any guy would want to seriously date. Of course you still have to look at other factors but we’re focusing on her profile. What would I send her in my first message?
“You’re profile sparked my interest, and I noticed that we do share a few things in common. I don’t want to bust out a corny line about how I lost my number, so I need yours. You’re probably sick of those types of guys. Instead, I will just say let’s get to know each other and see if we would be a good match.
I look forward to hearing back from you”
Don’t worry about copy & paste messages because they work. It’s all about wrapping everything up with good game. If your profile is good and you have good pictures, she will respond.