When I look at dudes who are not getting the women they want, they are all very negative. They’re negative about everything, not just women. They only focus on the bad things and how something will go wrong. If he’s not getting women, it’s because women are all sluts, fat, or only like guys with money. Anytime you try to put some positivity in the game, negative men will continue to tell you that game is not real or realistic. What you have to remember is that for every negative outcome, there is someone who overcame the same thing by staying positive. Part of the game is how you view yourself. If you few yourself as a loser, other people will. Confidence has always been a big part of the game. You never see attractive women around negative men. If she is, you don’t want her anyway so it doesn’t matter. Everyone that was around me when I was single (I love my wife), would always see a lot of attractive women around. When I go out, I go to have a great time. Everyone is laughing and not being negative. This is why women would approach me (again, I love my wife). Women like men who are fun and have a positive outlook on life. When you go out, I want you to look at the men with attractive women around. I guarantee they will all be laughing and having a good time. As long as you have fun and not focus on anything negative, attractive women will want to be around you. Women will constantly invite you out and introduce you to their friends. Let me give you a few tips to help you fix this part of your game:
1. Stay Away From Negative People- This is very important to getting away from that negative mentality. If you have people around who are always complaining, charge them to the game. When you’re around people like this, their bullshit will rub off on you. They are going to kill your chances of success. Your boy who says he doesn’t need game, fuck him. He’s not going to be happy for you anyway when you start getting good cooperation from women.
2. Don’t Trip on Shit You Can’t Control- A lot of guys like to get upset over shit they can’t control. I’m not 6ft tall, I have a small nose, and my hands are too big. You can’t do anything about this. Just shut up and stop crying. That is not going to change anything so get over it. Also, whining like this is so unmackish. It’s time to man up.
3. Turn The Negative Into A Positive- Anytime you’re out and something bad happens, try to turn it into a positive. You spill a drink all over your shit? Laugh it off and say it’s the new “in” thing. People pay you a lot of money for cranberry stained button shirts. As soon as you let it get to you, women will see this and stay away.
Remember, no one wants to deal with your negativity. Attractive women don’t want to be around men who are always complaining. Actually, no woman wants to be around a negative man. You might luck up on some hoodrats that will keep you around for free weed or something like that. Plus, complaining about women all the time is a loser move. It’s not their fault. I see a lot of guys complaining about a lack of quality women. This could be furthest from the truth. Step your game up, take responsibility and stay positive. You will increase your chances drastically. Until we meet again….