The topic on closing the deal is always going to come up. Some guys have come a long way where they are approaching women and women are giving them good cooperation. A lot of you guys are like me when I first started. Getting women to go out with you is not your problem. I’ve been on a ton of dates where everything went great and instead of me closing the deal, I would get an excuse as to why she couldn’t/wouldn’t sleep with me. I would even have women in my place and me at their place. Yes, some of it was definitely overstating my game. I knew that couldn’t be all of it. What drove me even crazier was the fact that this was happening exclusively with the dimes. Again, getting them to go out with me wasn’t hard. Why am I only getting make outs and dry humping? Why are women not letting me have sex with them? They didn’t trust me enough. I needed to make women feel like they could tell me their secrets. I also used this as a way to improve my conversation skills and focus on my personality. How do I build trust to sleep with dimes? I call it Reema Trust Game;
1. Make Sure She’s Talking- I’ve talked about this a few times before. A lot of guys are so caught up and trying to get women to like them. All you do is talk, talk and talk about yourself. That is not going to work with the dimes. Use this simple formula. Women that are talking are comfortable. Women that are comfortable with you are sleeping with you. Easy? I know
2. I’m Honest- Honesty is very important in the game. A lot of guys feel like they have to tell women anything just to sleep with them. You guys like to add unnecessary extras when you meet women because you think that is going to help you. I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to do any of that. I don’t start confessing when I meet women but if she asks me a question, I give her an honest answer.
3. Personal Information- Getting her personal information is a great way to build trust. I get her information about her everyday day life, friends and family. I’m always focusing the conversation on her. That makes me seem genuine. While you guys are asking women where they work and just move on to more fun stuff like can I buy you a drink? I ask her why she likes to do certain things and what made her want to do something. If she tells you she’s a teacher you can say, “That’s pretty cool. What made you want to get into teaching?” That’s not hard.
4. Don’t Judge- I actually think this is number one in building trust. This is not going to be easy. You really can’t pass judgment if you want to close the deal. If she’s worried about telling you something, you should let her know its ok and you won’t judge her. Don’t laugh, smile or make fun of her when she tells you something embarrassing. You’ve already teased her and the attraction is already done. You’re trying to close the deal. Not get her number.
5. Don’t Be Thirsty- The thirst is very real. You’ve done all of this to get her to trust you and you throw it all away by being thirsty. Immediately put your tongue back in your mouth. I already know how some of you get when sex is in front of you. You don’t want to force her to do something she doesn’t feel comfortable doing. You don’t have to be pushy. Take your time with everything. When she sees how calm you are, she will follow suit and everything will continue to flow.
I have already said this a million times and I will continue to say it again. Having a good personality and good conversation skills is going to get you the most attractive women 100% of the time. It is rare for a man to process these qualities. Looks and money have nothing to do with building trust. That is something you can only do with your conversation. When you’re dealing with dimes, it’s more than just making her laugh and asking her random questions. Remember, after she trusts you, she will sleep with you.
Afterthought: This doesn’t mean that you don’t focus on your appearance. Keep working out, eating right and wearing clothes with the correct fit.