Before I get into the game, my condolences got out to everyone affected by the school shooting in Connecticut. A very sad thing. I don’t have any kids yet but I can’t imagine what those parents are going through. A lot of people are upset about the coverage of the shooter and they should be. The media is doing everything in their power to focus on the shooter. Some news outlets are showing his baby pictures and talking about his girlfriend. Who gives a fuck about that. This guy is a stone cold killer that knew exactly what he was doing. If people keep glorifying these killers, it’s only going to get worst. The game is changing right before our eyes with these shootings. People are going to have to start recognizing what’s really going on. But I digress on that. I don’t want to take away from the families. I will break that part of the game down in a future post. Ok, let’s get into some game. Underestimating your game is a killer for a lot of guys right now. I talk to guys all the time who are not getting good cooperation from women. They are following all the rules of the game and still having issues. When they go over situations with women, they’re actually getting more cooperation than they think they are. A lot of times women are giving you an opportunity, but it’s going over your head. Your game isn’t as bad as you think it is. See someone who is true to the game knows when he’s being chosen. A lot of guys are so use to being rejected, so that’s what they think is going to happen. Your vibe and confidence is better than you think it is. While you think you’re a lame, you’re just an average guy who women are actually into. Let me give you guys some basic tips to look for so you know when a woman is choosing.
1. She Makes Eye Contact More Than Once- This is probably one of the easiest ways to tell if a woman is choosing you. One look is not enough. Two looks changes the game. Women that are not interesting in you won’t look at you. When a woman is not interested, she will actually go out of her way to not look at you. She will avoid eye contact at all cost. It’s generally not an accident that a woman makes eye contact with you. That’s a subtle way of her choosing.
2. She’s Very Talkative- This is a great way to tell that a woman is choosing. If you read some of the post from girls, girls, girls, you will always read me saying that I’m focusing the conversation on her. This is a way to get her comfortable with me. If she is comfortable, she will continue to talk. This lets me know she’s being cooperative and receptive to my game. When women aren’t comfortable or cooperative, they won’t say anything or give you one word answers.
3. She Ask You A Random Question- This happens more in social settings. So your bars, clubs, malls, coffee shops, book stores, etc. If a woman just comes up to you and asks you a random question, she could be choosing. I was out over the weekend for a friend’s birthday. We’re all just having a good time and doing what we do. One of our friends is a super square and always underestimates his game. This attractive woman walks up to him and says with a smile, “Hey are you from Long Island?” He says, “No I’m from Westchester” and he walks off. I see this and say, “My dude what happen?” He just goes, “Man she thought I was someone else.” Noooo she didn’t think you were someone else. That was her way of choosing. She was using that as a way to break the ice. You have to pick up on things like this. Women usually don’t come up to you and tell you they like you. They’re usually low-key about it. Now if a woman comes up to you and asks you if you stole her iPhone, she’s not choosing haha. Again, girl game is going to be subtle.
After you notice that she is being cooperative, keep everything going with good conversation. I can’t keep stressing her important your conversation skills are when dealing with women. The most attractive women are available with good conversation. That is such a lost art that a woman will go crazy for you if your conversation is crisp. I will go deeper into that in future post. Also, single women are very cooperative during the holidays. Never underestimate your game. You never want to walk around saying what if. The game is actually working for you and it’s time you start taking advantage.
Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanza, Happy Hanukkah, Feliz Navida. Enjoy this great time with all your loved ones. I will be back after the holiday to chop up more game. Until we meet again….