I’m just going to get right into the game. A lot of men right now are complaining about being single and women doing them wrong. When I look at their situations, it’s always the same thing. They’re allowing this to happen. I’ve already said a million times that as a man, you MUST take responsibility for your game. If a woman put you in a trick bag or simp bag, you’ve allowed that to happen. Women are only going to do what you allow them to do. I don’t think some of you really understand this so let me say it again. WOMEN WILL ONLY DO WHAT YOU ALLOW THEN TO DO! Let’s look at two guys that really need to start stepping up their game.
Guy 1. I’ve been dating this girl for a few weeks now and I haven’t hit it yet. We went out last night and she gets a call from a dude. She talks to the guy in front of me then she leaves to talk to him alone. When she comes back she says she has to go. I walk her to her car and she says, “Are you mad?” I told her, “There’s nothing to be mad about.” She text me the next day to say she had fun and sorry she had to leave. I text her back and say I had fun too. How should I handle her?
First thing you need to do when you see her is dust for dick prints. That’s exactly what she’s going to have on her. That was very disrespectful what she did. By you NOT checking her and just telling her you had fun, let’s her know you are the type of guy she can disrespect. You’ve allowed yourself to be disrespectful. Respect is the number one thing you MUST get from women. Without that, you basically have nothing. There is no way for you to handle her. You’re donzo! The only thing for you to do is charge her to the game and just make sure something like this doesn’t happen to you again.
Guy 2. I’ve been in a relationship with my girl and she is very selfish. I’m getting tired of her selfish ways. We went to grab some food from the deli. She found a $20 outside. After we ordered, she didn’t want to pay for my food with the $20 she found. I didn’t make a fuss about it and paid for my own stuff. We live together and split the bills 50/50. I recently got a promotion at my job and my girl wants me to pay more. I don’t feel like I should have to pay more because we are equal in this. What should I do? I’m really getting fed up with her. Should I charge her to the game?
Wow! She couldn’t even pay for his sandwich. That’s really fucked up. I would have no choice but to charge her to the game in the deli. We would have had our last supper. That’s just me though. The fact that she did this shows he allows all types of disrespectful things to go down. He’s allowed this to happen to him. At this point in your relationship, I don’t think you should charge her just yet. It’s all about the levels of disrespect. Right now it sounds like she needs to be checked. She’s testing you to see if you are going to man up and check her. When you start calling your girl out on her bullshit, they will calm it down. You have to call it out immediately though. If you keep letting it go on and on, it’s going to become blatant disrespect and that’s when you’re going to have to charge her. There’s no coming back from blatant disrespect. There are really only two reasons why women come at you being selfish and/or blatant disrespectful.
You’re dependent on her- As a man, you can never become dependent on your women. A lot of guys keep falling into this category. When you become dependent on your woman, your relationship has now become a mother child relationship. In the beginning everything will be cool and then you will see things turn for the worse. When women realize you are dependent on them, they put you in a subordinate bag. It’s a superiority thing.
Pussy Whipped- Again, something I’ve said a million times already. A lot of problems with women really come down to these two things. When you’re pussy whipped, she can pretty much tell you to do anything. She can tell you to pay more of the bills; I’m not buying you food with the money I found, etc. You have to stop valuing sex so much and discipline yourself. That’s the biggest problem I think guys have. Never allow yourself to be controlled sexually.
It’s time for you guys to step it up. Never allow yourself to be controlled by your woman. I don’t care how much money a woman has. A lot of you guys are being controlled by women who aren’t even holding like that. Some of you are letting customer service reps come at you like they’re shot callers. Some middle management chicks. Just because she’s a human resource manager doesn’t mean you have to suck up to her. What the fuck is wrong with some of you? I don’t care if it’s her house, car, none of that. Just because a woman is flexing her power on you doesn’t mean you have to accept it. Women will only do what you allow them to do. Do not allow it. Never forget you have the option to charge them to the game. Always have the option to be good by yourself. Again, it doesn’t matter how much money she has. A woman can have a few millions and I’m still running shit. I’m going to be all man with whatever woman I deal with. That’s the mentality you must have when dealing with women. Value yourself as a man, never let your women control you, stop putting pussy on a pedestal and you will be ok.