Why You CAN’T Avoid The Game

Before I get into the game, another great weekend in the books. I went to the Jay-z concert at the new Barclay’s center. Of course HOVA killed it. The Giants won so that’s always good. Giants win + Pumpkin spice beer = Sunday Funday. Also, I’m getting a lot of emails from guys asking me about the friend zone. What to do to get out of it. Men, you can’t escape something that doesn’t exist. There is NO such thing as the friend zone. That was something women made up to justify having a bunch of guys around them that want to bang them. Nothing more, nothing less. Women aren’t going to come out and say, “I love the attention you give me and you are a great ego boost. I have no intentions of ever sleeping with you.” Instead, they call you a “friend” to keep you around. Ok, let me get into some game. During the last post, I talked about why you must have a certain level of game. That you can’t avoid having game. Right now it’s very important that you learn the game. The game will suck you in and spit you out. You’re really going to learn the game one way or another. You can learn it on your own terms, or you will learn it the hard way. You want to learn the game before it bites you in your ass. When the game bites you in the ass, it’s already too late. A lot of people shy away from the game. When they hear the word “game”, they think manipulation and being deceptive. It’s not about that. The game is a lifestyle, a movement. It’s about knowing the rules of life. Knowing how to always stay a couple of steps ahead. Knowing the ins and outs of a situation and how to maneuver through that situation. That’s what having game is. Life is a game and it’s being played on people everyday and only the strong will survive. If you are not on top of your game, you will be gamed. Eat or be eaten. This applies to the financial game, the dating game, etc. A lot of guys get caught up in the game and they think people are going to give them sympathy. A lot of people try to the use the, “I didn’t know any better.” “I was young and dumb” excuse and no one really cares about that. People don’t give you sympathy for being naive. They will take advantage if given the opportunity to take advantage. This is why you need to know all the different angles of the game so the game won’t be run on you. The other day I was watching a documentary on TV that talked about athletes going broke. Many athletes go broke and get divorced within five years of retiring. These are guys that made millions and millions of dollars. Watching the interview of some of the athletes, you could see that they were going for the sympathy approach. “I was a young guy that signed a big contract”. “I never seen that type of money before.” You can see what type of shit they were on. Some guys think people are going to look out for them because they’re young. It’s like they threw the game book away. This one guy had a joint bank account with his girlfriend. I can understand if you did that with your wife, but your girlfriend? You guys already know what happens. He checks the account and its $600,000 lighter because his girlfriend transferred money into another account she set up for herself. Another guy got a bullshit $60,000 retirement check. He had to give $6,000 to some Hoodrat for child support and he used the rest to buy a car. He’s broke and wondering what went wrong. No one feels sorry for you. Also, a few of these guys had kids with multiple women. Getting caught up with child support payments. When you are at your third or fourth baby mother, something should click in your head that women are targeting you. It should never get to 7 or 8 different women. At that point, you deserve everything that’s happening to you. When you don’t look at all the angles and women get over on you, don’t start crying broke and looking for sympathy because you should have been on top of your game. This game is as important for the ladies. You looking for sympathy because you’re a bad luck chick isn’t going to work. No one cares. You’re just the dumb girl that didn’t respect the game. The game is always being played on women. For example when you look at the sex industry, they get the youngest and dumbest women they can find. They wear them out and move on. I was reading about the playboy empire and I respect the hustle that playboy has been running by convincing women showing themselves naked is empowering. A lot of the women were talking about how empowering it was to be in playboy and how much power they felt posing nude. Ladies, it’s NOT empowering to get naked and take pictures. That’s just a way to justify taking naked pictures for everyone to see. Any girl can buss it open and take some naked pictures. Any girl can turn a trick. The power comes before you turn the trick. The power comes before you spread your legs open. When you spread them, you lose your bargaining chip and that’s your power. Just bussing it open means you’re lost. How much do you get? How much did you negotiate? If you got some real paper from doing playboy, that’s empowering. If you got some real paper from turning a trick, that’s empowering. A lot of women now are hoeing for soco shots. A dude buys you a few shots and you’re bussing it wide open. Again, that’s not empowering. We have a lot of social networking hoes. Women that aren’t even trying to get any money. They get off on “likes” and “let’s fuck” comments from thirsty ass dudes. Again, that’s not empowering. When you play yourself for nothing, the game will take you in and spit you out and move on to the next batch of women. Let me end by just saying, get this game or the game will get you.


About The Reemachronicles

This blog is about the great NY dating scene. My focus will be on improving your overall greatness, the online dating game, some fashion tips and just other random thoughts helping guys get better with women. I will even give you updates on the current women in my life. Get on for the crazy ride that is my life.
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14 Responses to Why You CAN’T Avoid The Game

  1. egointhesea says:

    YES! If I had read this half a year earlier, I would have disagreed, but now I know better. It’s a dog-eat-dog world, and we gotta learn how to come out on top. Plus, with internet in this age, there is NO EXCUSE for being naive or ignorant. All the information’s out there, just gotta go out and absorb it.

    • That is 100% correct. Some people just want to learn things the hard way. The game is going to be played whether you like it or not. People that don’t respect the game always complain about it.

  2. Kui Gee says:

    i really agree with you on the friend zone.usually when a woman says lets be friends she is giving you a low status.what i usually say to other dump guys is that when a woman says lets be friends she is saying i know you can,t do without me in your life so am feeling pity for you and doing you a favour that i will dumping my emotional shit on you.most guys think one day she wil say friend u been good to me and come get pussy and that day never comes.again i agree that game is life and if you play by the rules of the game you get screwed

  3. Kui Gee says:

    sorry -if u don,t play by the rules of the game u get screwed.

    • haha yes sir. Women that hang around a bunch of male “friends” are just attention whores. I wouldn’t even date a girl that said she had a lot of male friends. That’s disrespectful for her to have a dude and be hanging around a bunch of guys she knows want to bang her.

  4. mp11312 says:

    Very good stuff as always man. The social networking hoes are getting sad now. I know this one chick in my news feed posts pics like her sexier friend and only gets one or two likes. She then posted a status the other day she was on a lunch date by herself and does it get any worse? I’m like, damn, if you got off Facebook postin pics all the damn time and tried to meet someone maybe you wouldn’t be lonely. Lol

  5. Kui Gee says:

    women under 21 are shit .i agree with u reema u once commented about this ,how
    did u come to realise this man

    • I wouldn’t say shit. You just need to know what type of female you are dealing with. Some women are more mature for their age.

      As far as learning game, I learned a lot of shit from hanging around other players. It’s crazy how much game you can soak up by hanging around other guys with game. Also, I LOVE to read and travel so that helps with the intelligence part of my game. That’s how I get real confidence. Real confidence comes from knowledge. A lot of guys think it comes from money or good looks.

  6. bossymoksie says:

    I agree with all THIS! I learned way back after puberty and I started getting a bunch of attention, that it was me or them, and it sure as hell wasn’t gonna be me!!!!!

  7. somename says:

    what do you mean by “charge her to the game”. I just found this website today (good info), and couldn’t find the definition on urbandictionary. Is this some NY lingo, cause I’m from Oregon.

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