Before I get into the game, I want to say that you can have a little simp in you. Nothing wrong with that (blackmenuncensored haha). It’s all about having balance. You should be doing fly shit with your girl. That’s when it’s ok to simp. It’s cool in the game to cupcake a little with your girl. It’s not ok when you start pulling out the red carpet for ALL women you meet. You have flowers and chocolates on the first date. That’s not mackish and against everything that’s true to the game. With that out of the way, let me get into some game. It’s about that time again. The annual simp season. Simp season starts around late September. This is the time when guys that had crisp game during the summer, start having simp relapses. You guys are falling off the wagon and getting into simp behavior. Listen, I understand that things slow down during his time. A lot of events aren’t going on like they were during the summer. Also, most of the dimes are locked down. The guys that found a dime locked her down. This leaves you with less options and that’s why the simping comes out. A lot of you get emotional and lonely. You have to know how to get over this. You never want to become a power simp. These are the most dangerous simps. These are the simps that stalk and kidnap women. These are the guys making YouTube videos, angry at the world and bitter. I know a lot of you don’t think you’re power simps. You have to self reflect and look at the energy you’re putting out there. It takes a lot of energy being a simp. It’s easier to just be true to the game. As a simp, you’re doing unnecessary things to keep women interested. You do unnecessary spending, unnecessary calling and text messaging. You spend a lot of time buying ski mask and stalker gear. You’re always checking up on women and writing poems to your favorite Brian McKnight song. That shit takes a lot of time. This is why I say its easier being true to the game. We don’t go through all of that. We just do us. We’re not putting any extras on it. We’re not bitter, angry at the world and telling women we can’t live without them. We don’t say we don’t need game. You try to put these guys up on some game and they will say, “I’m cool on that game shit”, “I have all the game I need”. These are the same guys bellyaching over women. Bellyaching over non dimes and women they haven’t even kissed or slept with. Guys, you MUST have a certain level of game. You CAN’T avoid the game. Not only do you have to know the game, you MUST respect the game. Knowing the game is one thing, respecting it is another. The game will always work for those who recognize its power and respect it. Lack of respect for the game will always come back to bite you. A lot of men want to learn this shit the hard way. That is what makes you a simp. A real true to the game dude will fuck with something on a logical level. If it sounds like it makes sense, he will roll with it. Simps try to put a round peg into a square hole. All that does is bring baggage. You get mad when the simp shit is not working. I don’t care how much of a “good guy” or “friend” you try to be. That shit doesn’t work. Don’t try and go against the grain. Even if you’re true to the game, you have to reinforce your game. This means hanging around other guys with game, educating yourself and knowing who you are. That builds real confidence. You know what? Let me break down a few reasons why you will be a simp, stay a simp or have a simp relapse.
You Don’t Listen- Listening is very important to your game and a lot of you have a hard time doing it. You let your ego get in the way of your game. I always say ego has killed many guys game because you think you’re fly, the shit and you know everything. You think women can’t run game on you. What you fail to realize is that women will use this against you. My female readers know exactly what I’m talking about. Women will use your ego against you. Women will run good ass game on you because of this. This is why you’re in a trick bag, friend zone or both. Keep your ego in check guys.
You Can’t Control Your Emotions- I would say this is the main reason why men become simps. This is a female characteristic and this doesn’t work for a man. As a man, you can’t make decisions that are dedicated by your emotions. What makes you a man is how you control your emotions. To do that, all you have to do is think first. Emotional men think with their emotions first and think about the consequences after. This is a recipe for disaster. Now you’re following your woman, she doesn’t respect you and you know respect is A MUST! Think first and control your emotions.
You Are Sheltered- Travel, travel and travel. You have to go to different places and different events. A lot of men put way too much value in the women in their neighborhoods. When you don’t travel, you don’t see the options that are available to you. Options keep your game crisp and you don’t sweat women. When you travel, you see that your game works better with certain women than others. This builds real confidence. You will start to treat your game as being sacred and only worthy for a select few. You will start to only deal with women who are bringing 110% cooperation to the table. This means stepping to you with her shit together or ZERO baggage so you can teach her what to bring to the table. Fuck chasing after women and trying to convince them how “great” of a guy you are. Value yourself as a man!
If this still doesn’t work, have an intervention. What you have to do is invite your simp homie to the strip club. Tell him you guys are going to “make it rain”. Of course he will be excited and have his singles all ready to go (usually a pay check worth). Instead of the strip club, take him to a room with friends and family. When he gets mad and says, “I thought we were going to the strip club.” You have to pull out your written intervention statement which should say, “Dear (simp homie), we have been boys for a long time. You are spending way too much money on hookers and strippers. You buy flowers, chocolates and write poems to women. You sleep with your cape on so you are always ready to save women. Even though you do all this simp shit, WE STILL LOVE YOU!” You might have to shed a tear or two to make it work haha. Seriously though, the game is real guys. Keep your ego in check, respect the game and stop power simping. You will get through simp season the elite way.