I was at the barber shop on Saturday getting laced (what up B?) and we were chopping up game like we always do. This one guy was talking about how his girl dominates him, he’s tired of it and he wanted to know how he could fix the situation. It’s crazy because I got a lot of emails and meet men in situations like this all the time. Some of you guys are power simps and power tricks. It’s time for you guys to man up with these women you are dealing with. I’ve been telling you guys this for the longest. When you’re in a relationship with a women and she is controlling you, dominating you, this only happens for one reason and one reason only. You are pussy whipped. I spoke about this before. The only trump card a woman has in the relationship is that she can withhold sex. Sex is the carrot she dangles in your face to get you to do anything she wants you to. There is nothing more dangerous than a woman who knows she has a man sexually whipped. Women like this set men up to get robbed, sometimes even killed. Look at when you see someone getting robbed or set up. It’s always some dude going to some girl’s house or meeting some girl at a hotel to get some ass. You meet her, she runs game on you, you try to hit it and 5 dudes run up on you. I hear about this happening to men ALL THE TIME; it’s crazy! You guys can’t keep putting yourselves in dangerous situations just to get some ass. You have to charge this thinking to the game. A lot of you get some good sex and you forget about everything else. You have to understand that if a woman can control you sexually, this is the foundation for her to control and dominate the relationship. When she knows she can control you sexually, she will control you mentally, emotionally and socially. When your woman is dominated you, she will never respect you. You already know that respect is NUMBER 1 in relationships. Women really don’t want to dominate the relationship. They will try to when they get that control, they will definitely not like it. That’s why you always see dominate women and they’re bitter and angry. You have to understand that dynamic. Let me give you guys a few tips to help you stop being dominated by your woman.
1. Condition Your Woman- Notice I said condition and not train. You train a dog and training someone has a negative feel to it. You should respect your girl if you’re in a relationship with her. Conditioning someone is not negative. When you condition your woman, you let her know how you get down. What you will and will not tolerate. You have to let her know you will not be dominated or disrespected. This is something you have to establish from day one. Remember, you end how you start with women.
2. You Always Have Options- A lot of men really think they don’t have options. This is why you allow your woman to dominate you. You really believe this is the best you can get. NO WOMAN is above being charged to the game. You might as well get it over with because sooner or later she’s going to charge you if she’s dominating you. This goes back to understanding the power of the game. You can upgrade your game so you can upgrade hers. You should always weigh your options because some women are just far gone. It’s not even worth the upgrade.
3. Take Charge But Not Dictate- Guys you should know the difference between taking charge and dictating. When you are taking charge, you are doing so in the best interest of the relationship. Taking charge means you are making the decisions that are going to be in the best interest of the relationship. You are going to use your experience as a man to make those decisions. This comes back to respecting the game and using the game fairly. A real woman will be ok with this don’t worry.
4. Control Yourself Sexually- A lot of you just don’t know how to control yourself sexually. Right now, we have a lot of men that just want to bang anything and everything. All standards go out the window just to have sex. That shit is corny and you can’t feel good about yourself banging lackluster women. The game is never that slow where you have to compromise your standards. This shows that your weak and you can’t control yourself. This is why you’re being controlled. To really become true to the game, you have to discipline yourself. When you have controlled yourself sexually, you have destroyed a woman’s trump card.
If you are being dominated by your woman, you have to become a new dude. You have to stop telling yourself you don’t need game and that you have all the game you need. Keep your ego in check. The game is very powerful and it can save your life. Men that are true to the game aren’t being dominated and controlled by their woman. They’re not getting their checks garnished and losing half their assets. They’re not getting set up and robbed by women. Remember, the game should be in you, not on you.