Always Keep It Mackish When You’re In A Relationship

Now that I’m wifed up, I see the game a little different. Things that I did when I was single will not be as effective now that I am in a relationship. I know most of the game here on the chronicles is mostly for single people. It keeping up with the equal opportunity game concept, I have to lace my people who are in relationships or have significant others. A lot of people get into relationships for a long time or even a short time, and they find themselves staring at each other with nothing to say. They get bored with one another and the relationship fizzles out. In some cases, the relationship is over but they still stay together. Then, they start to look outside the relationship. The reason why I think relationships get like this is because a lot of people won’t do anything once they get into a relationship. You do all the things to get yourself into a relationship and then you just stop. You think you don’t need “game” in a relationship. Readers of the chronicles know the game is much deeper than that. It’s a lifestyle, a movement. It’s about always trying to be your best. If you want to become true to the game, you MUST be upgrading yourself at ALL times. Once you get into a relationship you MUST look outward. When you look inward, it’s like you’re so cute; you’re so hot. I love you, kisses and whispering sweet nothing’s. That’s cool in the beginning and fun. Nothing is wrong with being in love and being romantic. Shit in this case, cupcaking is even allowed. You just can’t do that all the time or it’s just going to get boring and corny. It needs to be drawn out. Especially when it comes to sexual tension. Sexual tension needs to be maintained in the relationship. That’s why you should NOT be having sex with your girl all the time. Sex shouldn’t be the focal point of your relationship. You should let the sex build up because that makes it more exciting. When you start having sex all the time it gets played out. Also when you’re in a relationship you have to create things to talk about. You have to do and try new things with your significant other. Travel; go to different restaurants, museums, art galleries, stage plays, etc. You have endless possibilities. Staying in the house is not mackish guys. Doing different things will help you grow and expand your mind (being true to the game). This is another way for you to upgrade your game and your girl’s game. I meet women all the time who complain about their men not wanting to do anything. A lot of you want to just sit home and watch sports or just watch TV with your girl. You also try to use money as an excuse. Don’t even think about saying, “I don’t even have money like that to do anything.” Or, “The economy sucks man. I rather stay home and save money to pay my bills.” STOP playing the broke victim. I already spoke about charging broke energy to the game. Two grown ass people in a serious relationship really shouldn’t be struggling. Of course you have different exceptions, but all extra shit aside, two people in a relationship that have been working for a significant amount of time should not be struggling for money. In relationships people usually have money problems because they are not on the same page. They have a division of finances. This is where as a man, your leadership skills need to take over. As a man, you should be managing the finances. If you are not managing the finances, that’s a problem. You MUST establish early on that you are going to be the man of the relationship. You are going to be the leader of the relationship. Women when you hear this, it doesn’t mean you are going to be controlled, not have any power and be a slave. A lot of women are on that shit. They take male leadership and turn it into some slave shit. “OMG he is taking all the power and controlling me.” You have to charge that thinking to the game ladies. Having a man lead you doesn’t mean he is going to control you. This is why as a woman, you must have the confidence to let your man lead. This is why you have to choose your man correctly. You shouldn’t be with a guy if you didn’t feel like he would be putting you both in the best position to have a successful relationship. Also men if you are managing the money, you have to manage it fairly. Don’t go trick your money at the strip club or on your mistress. It’s all about being fair and respecting the game. I always say, “Without respect you have nothing.” Your woman should be as fly as you are. Remember, try new things, respect your relationship and establish yourself as the leader. Also, don’t think you don’t need game when you’re in a relationship. You will 100% live to regret that decision. Always stay on top of your shit and keep on keeping it mackish.

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About The Reemachronicles

This blog is about the great NY dating scene. My focus will be on improving your overall greatness, the online dating game, some fashion tips and just other random thoughts helping guys get better with women. I will even give you updates on the current women in my life. Get on for the crazy ride that is my life.
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9 Responses to Always Keep It Mackish When You’re In A Relationship

  1. Sunshine says:

    ” it’s ok to cupcake” beautiful

  2. serenityluv1 says:

    Now this use to be my strong area in my marriage! I believe in keeping things live & exciting. Yes you need to do more on people who are in relationships. I might pick up a new trick or two! LOL

  3. serenityluv1 says:

    I tell women this all this all the time-stay on top of your Game. Don’t fall off. Stop saying what you not going to do & stay cute. A man don’t want to wife you and then you start to look like a $5 crackhead 6 months later because you have got too comfortable. Hmm maybe I need to do my female version of this! haha

  4. offdadome says:

    Well said, I do believe women should allow their men to do what comes natural ie. to lead,

  5. mp11312 says:

    Once again I totally agree….too many people in relationships just let themselves go once the thrill of the chase is over.

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