It’s about that time again for me to chop up game for the women. Remember, the chronicles is all about equal game opportunity. Now ladies let’s talk about men you MUST avoid. I know this may be difficult for some of you because you like trying to save men. The red flags are waving directly in your faces and you are still missing them. Well not missing them but just ignoring them. The need to nature is taking over and you want to date men you have ZERO business dating. Let someone else waste their time. You MUST value your time ladies. If you don’t, no man ever will. The same energy you are wasting by trying to save a man, you could be using that to work on your overall greatness. For women, this means doing everything in your power to bring other things besides sex to the table. Ok, men you must avoid.
The Drama King- I know you’ve all heard of the drama queen. Well you have men out here who are drama kings. You want to avoid them ladies. A drama king is a man who always has some bullshit going on in his life. There is always some up in the air shit. Now some of you women like drama so guys like this are perfect for you. A lot of women like to be in the middle of everybody’s business. When a guy comes to you with all his drama, you love to be in the middle of it especially if it has something to do with another woman. Also the drama king has a lot of things going on at once. See life is hard as it is; you don’t need anyone else’s life complications. Trust me your problems are enough as it is. You women are being dragged into divorces and family drama. Avoid this at all cost. This can also potentially be dangerous. This guy hasn’t brought closure to his relationship. Next thing you know you are out with the girls and some random girl is hitting you with a bottle and you don’t even know her. You have no idea what he is telling her. Just tell him to call you when he has his shit together. Look for men with a clean slate.
Men Who Don’t Take Care If Their Kids- Another great blogger Kai touched on this also (go follow her blog; read this first though haha). This is a major character issue. I know some people say you should judge a man by how he treats his mom. I’m here to tell you to STOP doing that. That is some old information that was never correct anyway. I know some of the grimmest dudes that treat their mothers like queens. You should judge a man on how he treats his children, how he raises them and how he influences the upbringing of those kids. That shows real character. You ladies know what I’m talking about. You meet a man who has kids and you ask him when was the last time he saw them. He says, “I haven’t seen my kids in three years. I send them $300 a month though.” If a man doesn’t care about his kids, don’t think he’s going to care about you. I know men that won’t even acknowledge their kids. I just had to charge them to the game. I didn’t even want to associate with men like that. Judge men on how they raise their kids.
About To Men- Another type of man you should avoid. These are the men that are just about to do something in their lives, but really have nothing going on. He’s just about to get a job, he is just about to get a car and he is just about to get a house. You have to watch out for men like this. Especially if they have reached a certain age. At some point as a man you need to have your shit together. I know a man’s value is only going to increase as he gets older. With that said, the 35-year-old man who is about to get on his feet is just not worth it. You don’t want to be single saying, “Men ain’t shit”, “Men can’t handle a strong woman like me”, “I’m miss independent.” At the end of the day all that means is that you just can’t get or keep a man. Put your wonder woman capes down. Not a good look ladies.
Like I have said many times before, you have to require more from the men you deal with. Don’t be one of these women that settle for a man who doesn’t have his shit together because you think men like this are easier to control. That shit is played out. As long as you show RESPECT, keep your look RIGHT and improve your hustle skills, men will be lining up to be with you.