The first installment was a huge success. Sometimes you have to give the people what they want. Let’s get into the game.
1. I just made a profile on an online dating website. What’s a good first message?
First things first, online dating starts with your profile and pictures. If you don’t have a good profile and pictures, it won’t matter what your message says because women will not read it. Anyway, here is a first message I would use: “You’re profile sparked my interest, and I noticed that we do share a few things in common. I don’t want to bust out a corny line about how I lost my number, so I need yours. You’re probably sick of those types of guys. Instead, I will just tell you that you seem cool, and I would love to chat with you sometime to see if we would be a good match.
I look forward to hearing back from you”
2. I got this girl’s number and she is insisting that I take her out a date. When I suggested she come over to the crib, she declined and told me she wanted me to take her out. How do I deal with a woman that insist I take her on a date?
If a woman is insisting that you take her out on a date that is a MAJOR problem. When a girl likes you, you don’t have to take her anywhere. If she likes you, she just wants to be around you feeling your vibe. This girl already has a dude and just wants her ego boosted. This is attention whoring 101. Insisting that you take her on a date is a way for her to avoid intimacy. That’s why she didn’t want to come over. Going out on a date makes her feel like she’s not doing anything wrong. When her boyfriend asks her what she was doing, she can say she went out to dinner with a friend. That sounds a lot better than I was at this guy’s house. A lot of women judge their desirability on how many free meals they can get. Don’t get caught up in that bull shit. Immediately charge her to the game.
3. I just met this girl and she wants me to go to her friend’s party with her. I think it would be good for me to go. Do you think I should go?
ABSOLUTELY NOT! DO NOT GO! You have to watch out for women like this. Some women like to have a bunch of guys that want to bang them in the same place. It’s a bull shit game women like to play. When a woman invites you somewhere and she knows nothing about you, she’s putting on a show for some other guy she’s dealing with. I learned this hard way. I went to a party with a girl I just met and her ex boyfriend was there. They were in the corner fighting the whole time. I just hard to charge her to the game. Also, it could be dangerous. You don’t want to get caught up in some love triangle with a girl you just met.
4. I’m concerned about the amount of partners my girlfriend has had. When I ask her about this she never gives me a straight answer. Should I be concerned?
Here’s the thing about women and sex partners. Women will lie about the amount of men they slept with 125% of the time. Don’t even bother asking her. This is the number one thing women lie about. I tell guys this all the time. The reason why women can lie so easily is because women lie to themselves. Women have a lot of “don’t count sex”. They may not count the times when they were drunk, one night stands, or if it was a bad experience. What your girl did in the past should stay in the past. As a man who is working towards becoming true to the game, you have to learn how to deal with her past. Don’t hold that against her and move forward.
5. This attractive girl just started at my job. I want to set something up with her. How do I go about doing that?
If this is a career for you then you DO NOT set anything up with her. I don’t care what this girl looks like. I would suggest you just be cool with her and try to get with her friends. If it’s just a bullshit job then proceed to hit that. Set it up like you would any other date. When you see at work (preferably by herself) just invite her to join you for a drink. Say, “Hey on Monday’s (or whatever night) I go to (place) they have good drinks. I’m going to go at (time) you should join me.”
This has been another installment of ask & you shall receive. Be on the look out for more responses to reader emails.