As far as me talking about cheating, I’m not exposing anyone that’s true to the game. A man that’s true to the game and respects the game isn’t really a cheater. Cheaters don’t respect the game because they’re all about themselves. I have no problem exposing them because they don’t like men that are true to the game anyway. A lot of women want to know how to spot a cheater? Are all men cheaters? What makes a man a cheater? Women, you have to understand that there are a lot of different factors that go into cheating. Today I’m going to talk about four different types of cheaters. The rebellious child cheater, cheaper to keep her cheater, delayed player cheater and the playing with fire cheater.
1. Rebellious Child Cheater- This is the guy that’s in a relationship with a dominating woman. This is the “mother child relationship”. The man is living off you and you’re the shot caller. This is a very unnatural thing in a household. It creates an uncomfortable dynamic for the man. Now some men do look for this in the women they get into relationships with. They look for a maternal figure. These are the guys that can’t stand on their own two feet, they can’t keep a job, and shit just doesn’t seem to work out for them. A lot of women will see this, your maternal instincts kick in and you want to help him. You take him under your wings and nature him like a baby. The man takes on the roll of the child and sometimes you reprimand him like one. This is a killer for any mans ego. When a man is dominating by his woman and he’s in a child like position, he’s going to do what children do and that’s rebel. The way they rebel is by banging other women. This is a subconscious way to get back at you. This is what goes on in their minds. Ladies it’s up to you to choose your man correctly. You CAN NOT get into these mother son relationships and think its going to last. A lot of you think, “He won’t bite the hand that feeds him”. You think you can control the man by dominating the relationship. That shit doesn’t work. You have to be confident enough to deal with a man whose a good leader. That’s very important. The rebellious child cheater will continue to cheat while he is in this relationship. It doesn’t matter what he says or does. It’s the only way for him to show any dominance. He has no other social skills besides banging chicks behind your back.
2. Cheaper To Keep Her Cheater- This is the guy that’s in a relationship and he wants to leave, buts it’s too financially devastating for him. He’s emotionally divorced from the relationship. In his mind, he’s single and just married on paper. If you talk to men like this they will say, “The marriage was over years ago. I’m just here for the kids.” Again, they just can’t afford to get their income split up. It’s better to just bang other women and still maintain the household. In situations like this, you may not even sleep in the same bed or even talk to each other but at least the money will be in order. It’s a relationship that is just going through the motions. Some women are ok with this. Some women are well aware of what goes on outside the household with their husbands. If that works for you then cool. If not, you need to step your shit up. Stop being lazy, get out there and choose a correct partner. People outgrow each other and you just have to charge that to the game. I know it’s hard when you built a foundation. I know women love saying they found their “soul mate”. You can have more than one soul mate ladies. Your not suppose to stay in a dead-end relationship. If it’s not working, charge him.
3. Delayed Player Cheater- This is the guy that got married or into a long-term relationship at a very young age. He’s the level 1 player that I talked about in an earlier game for women post. A lot of young guys feel like they can’t get any girls, so they wife up the first girl that’s willing to sleep with them. Once these men get older and get financial stability, they feel the need to go through their player stage. As some of you ladies already know, all men must go through a player stage. Men want to see how many women they can get. It’s an ego thing. I know people may call this a mid-life crisis but that’s just a delayed player. Ladies if you’re married to a guy that got married to you at a young age, chances are he’s going to be a delayed player cheater. You can spot men like this by the way they start dressing and acting. He might have been a conservative dresser; now he’s going to dress flashier. He might start going to the gym too often. That’s a delayed player move. His hobbies will change. He might start golfing. Golf is a great excuse because Golf is a boring sport. Women don’t usually want to watch you or play with you. Like if your man tells you he’s going to play basketball or football, you might tell him you want to watch or play with him. Also with Golf, you can essentially be gone for hours. 18 holes can literally take all damn day. You can do a lot of dirt under the golfing ruse.
4. Playing With Fire Cheater- This is a very unique type of cheater. This is the kind of guy that gets off on doing something deceptive. Men like this get off on the thought of almost getting caught. They will bring women home and bang them in your bed. They will sleep with your best friend or family members. They like the drama. This is the mentality these men have. Usually the playing with fire cheater has a boring everyday life. The only adventure they can get is by cheating on the edge. These kinds of cheaters are VERY DANGEROUS. These are the men you read about that get caught with transsexual, dressing like women and a bunch of crazy fetishes you probably don’t know about. Women you have to stop being oblivious to what’s going on. Watch out for men like this.
Now I can sit here and identify the different types of cheaters all day long. Some of you know your dude is cheating but you make up excuses to stay with him. A lot of women have a need for attachment. You think having someone is better than having no one. That could be further from the truth. It’s better to have no relationship then to have a bad relationship. Bad relationship mess you up. I know you’ve all heard the saying, “You can do bad by yourself”. If you’re doing bad by yourself, you have the opportunity to get back on your feet. Eventually you will get back up. If you’re doing bad by yourself and you have someone doing bad with you, not only do you have to lift yourself up, you have to pull this man up. You’re trying to lift yourself up and you constantly have someone pulling you back down. That’s a tug of war. You can’t get any sense of stability like that. You don’t need to have a guy that’s cheating on you. Just like I tell the men, don’t be afraid to charge someone to the game. You MUST make better choices with the men you deal with. I know some of you want to date men to impress your friends. Get off that status shit. Get with a man who is going to be compatible with your style and the upgrading of you. Ladies when you get a man, make sure he is going to be an asset, not a liability. There’s no in-between. He will either bring you up or down. I want all of you to think deep about this. Until we meet again….