Over the past few weeks I have been receiving a decent amount of emails from the readers. Today I will answer a few of the most common ones. Let’s chop up game.
1. Do you have to be a certain age to start learning the game?
This is a common question that I get asked all the time. You do NOT have to be a certain age to start learning the game. Like I have always said, game is not all about sleeping with women. It’s a lifestyle, a movement. Game is going to help you become a better man in all aspects of your life. Of course dating attractive women will be apart of that. The younger you start learning the game, the better it will be for you.
2. How do I give a woman my number without talking to her for a long time?
To most of the guys that have been following the game, this may seem like stupid question. Like Ms. Taylor (my first grade teacher) said, no question is a stupid question. You have to be quick with your game. You have to make it seem like you have better things to do than to be talking to her all day. Use this next time, “Hey, I don’t have time to talk right now. Here is my number. Give me a call so we can talk.” Women like when you’re direct. You don’t have to start cupcaking around women for an hour before you give them your number. After today that shit is done. Quick and to the point will work just fine.
3. I’ve been broken up with my ex girlfriend for 3 years. She has been contacting me a lot lately. I’m exciting because I still love her. Do you think she wants me back?
No she doesn’t want you back. She probably has another dude. This is why you never move backwards with women. You have to understand that women like to come back and get reassurances from other men that they know will sweat them. You’ve already admitted that you still love her and I’m sure she knows that. You’re just going to boost her confidence to go back to the next guy. You’ve probably heard from her, “I really miss you”; “I really miss your vibe.” Don’t fall for that. Sometimes it is cool to just hit it for old time’s sake, but usually there is a lot of baggage that comes with dealing with an ex. Also people change over time. This girl is not the same girl 3 years ago when you guys were dating. Either hit it just because or just charge her to the game. Do NOT even think about being friends with her.
4. I recently had a disagreement with my girlfriend. Instead of talking about it, she just hung up the phone on me and has not returned any of my phone calls. What should I do?
Your girlfriend is being very disrespectful. First thing you want to do is read “Never Deal With Disrespect From Women.” Right now she is on level one. You need to resolve this now because it will only escalate if you wait. It seems like she has done some slick shit so she is trying to justify it by acting like this. You have to really cross-examine her and find out the whole story. Don’t take anything she says for face value because women LOVE to tell half-truths. You need to sit her ass down because you guys are at a pivotal moment. Find out if you guys are going to work this out or just move on. Keep me posted on this.
5. I’m not looking for a relationship but every time I start sleeping with a woman she falls for me. How did I make sure this doesn’t happen?
You have to stop leading women on. A lot of guys start telling women extra shit just to sleep with them. Don’t start making promises and cupcaking with women just to sleep with them. As long as you are honest about it, women will respect that. Women want to have sex with no strings attached also. When you start doing all the extras, you’re just messing the game up for the next guy. You must be honest with your game.
This has been the first installment of Ask & You Shall Receive. Many more to come so stay tuned!