You’ve been messaging back in forth with a girl you can’t wait to meet. She’s responding to your messages right away, and you can just tell she’s into you. You wait a few days and you send her your number close message. No response. Wait, WTF? You start freaking out, trying to figure out why she didn’t respond to you. You view all the messages, and then you start to criticize yourself for not being funny enough, challenging enough, etc. SMACK YOURSELF! It’s not as bad as you think. This is not the time to send her a hateful message. Real Men accept being charged to the game…..Ok, keep in mind that the average woman receives anywhere from 5-10 messages a day. Now, if you’re messaging the highest quality of women in your area (you better be), then these women receive anywhere from 25-50 messages a day. What happens when you wait 2-4 days to respond to her message? Your message gets lost with all the other “sup sexy?”, “hottie wit a body”, “let’s fuck” messages. So while you think she is no longer interested in you, it’s in fact the complete opposite. She just doesn’t feel like going through 30-100 messages to find yours. This is the main reason why I started sending the radio silence message. It has gotten women back on the hook more times that not. The real key is when and how you use this message. I always wait at least 7 days before I send it. Also, this message should ONLY be sent to women who have sent you at least 3 messages, before she went cold. That is the best way for this strategy to be effective. Don’t send your opening email, get no response and then send this message. You will just come off as creepy and needy. Many different women will have the following message in their profile. “If I don’t respond to you the first time, please stop messaging me. You will not change me mind.” I 100% agree with the ladies on this one. Stop wasting time with women who aren’t interested in you. You are using a dating website to meet women, not get a restraining order taken out against you. Let’s take a look at the radio silence message:
Subject: I know what happen….
“OMG! You’ve been kidnapped! Of course, I’ll pay the ransom. You’re worth every penny! But you’re going to have to find a way to pay me back…”
The subject already sets the tone of the message. The first thing she will do is view all the messages you guys have sent each other. She will remember that you were the guy who qualified her, challenged her, made her laugh and built some great rapport with her. Let’s look at a response I got from a girl who went cold after sending me 4 messages:
“HAHA text me silly xxx-xxx-xxxx awwwww :)”
Works like a charm. Don’t freak out if she goes cold. She probably just didn’t feel like looking through 100 boring messages.
Afterthought: Again, DO NOT use this information to become a stalker. Know when to throw in the towel. Accept when you’ve been charge to the game.