Plenty of Fish Tips

Right now I’m using POF and okcupid. You should 100% be on at least two dating websites if you want to maximize your results. The hunt for Mrs. Reema is on. These tips will help you navigate the online dating world. 
 
1. Don’t use the “Quick Message” button

Use the “Send Message” button at the bottom of the page instead and fill in the subject line. If you don’t do that, your subject line will just read “Hi” and your “Hi” will probably get lost among the other 200 hundred unread “Hi” messages in her inbox.

2. Don’t tell her that she is pretty
 
Don’t even suggest it or hint at it. Resist the temptation to say nice things about her eyes, her smile, her boobs or any other part of her body. Attractive women with pictures already assume that you find them physically attractive when you initiate contact on POF. Would you message women on POF that you DIDN’T find physically attractive and tell them that they were pretty? If the answer is “yes” then you really need to cut that out. 
 
3. Challenge Her
 
A lot of guys see an attractive woman’s profile and immediately start thinking of all the things you want to do to her. Don’t make it so easy and obvious. Again, stop with all the smiley faces. One per message MAX. If her profile is empty, either pass her by or call her out on it in a funny way.
 
4. Don’t be too obvious, or boring
 
In real life conversations men can often get away with being a little boring. Don’t try that shit on POF. You need to stand out from the 100 other dudes that sent her an opening message.
 
5. Don’t anticipate her objections
 
Too many times I see guys begging for a chance in their opening message. Don’t tell her to give you a chance despite being, ugly, old, out-of-shape, or anything else you want to send women to make them feel sorry for you. Wait for her to raise objections before you try to deflect any of them.
 
6. Call her out on her bullshit
 
If you restricted yourself to only messaging women on POF with a good profile, then you would only message about two or three women. If her profile is seriously lacking in some way, contains nonsense or crappy photos, then gently tease her about if she is still hot enough to talk to.
 
7. Demonstrate higher value
 
Don’t open by telling her your net worth, annual salary or dick size. That’s too thirsty. Just gently and indirectly show her some positive quality or qualities that you have. Don’t take this as a reason to brag. Remember, that’s what needy guys do. That is not you!
 
8. Don’t write a text message or an essay
 
Avoid text speak. Pay attention to basic spelling and grammar. Women HATE when guys do this. Don’t message her things like “Wats up”, “Yup, you bad” (my personal favorite) and, “Sup sexy”. Again, the goal is to be different and stand out. Using text talk won’t do anything but hurt you. Don’t write an essay either. A few short sentences is more than enough for a POF opener. 
 
Afterthought:
These tips will not have girls all over you. This is just to help you get quality women to start responding to your messages. You still need to make sure your profile and pictures are right. That is the first step. Too many guys are just looking for instant results. You need to get the basics down first. Look out for tips on OKcupid, Mizzle chopping up more game and I’m still working on the first female blogger to write on the Reemachronicles. I have some more  exciting stuff for you guys. Keep spreading the word, the blog is doing great. Thanks for your support.
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About The Reemachronicles

This blog is about the great NY dating scene. My focus will be on improving your overall greatness, the online dating game, some fashion tips and just other random thoughts helping guys get better with women. I will even give you updates on the current women in my life. Get on for the crazy ride that is my life.
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