A lot of my friends will tell you I’ve had my fair share of one-night stands. I actually prefer the one-night stand to keeping a girl around and sleeping with her multiple times. With my lifestyle it’s much easier for me to just sleep with a girl once and be on to the next. I’ve never shared with anyone how I go about getting one-night stands. Today is that day. Quickly sleeping with a woman isn’t anywhere near as complicated as it’s made out to be. It’s so easy that it can be summarized in just a few short paragraphs.You only need to do one thing to get a woman to quickly sleep with you and it’s not just a one-night stand thing. It’s the same for getting any woman to have sex with you, whether it’s a random girl in a bar, your girlfriend, or long-term wife. You need to make her feel secure. Even the sluttiest women (my favorite) like to feel secure before sleeping with a guy. Usually when you go out, you will encounter three types of women. There are the slutty women that will sleep with just about any decent-looking guy, the women that will quickly jump into bed with you if they think you are extremely hot (but only if they think you are extremely hot), and then the vast majority of women out there who never go out with the intention of having a one-night stand. With the vast majority of the women out there, the only way that you’re quickly getting into bed with them is if you make them feel incredibly secure with you. These are the women that when after they sleep with you, they are going to feel like it “just happened”. What makes random sex “just happen”? Security. How do you go about making a woman feel incredibly secure with you? There are only two things that you need to focus on: making lots of eye contact and doing a lot of intimate touching, all throughout the interaction. If you give a woman a lot of intimate touching (not trying to feel her up) and eye contact all night long, chances are, she is going to feel secure with you. It doesn’t guarantee she will with you. It does place her in a state in which if it happened, she wouldn’t stop you. If she feels secure with you, she will go with you just about anywhere and leave with you for just about any reason. She feels safe, secure, and most likely trusts you.Why does this strategy work? When a woman feels safe and secure with you, she feels like there is going to be a future with you. This means she’s most likely not going to see you as some random guy trying to have a one-night takedown with her. She most likely feels like she is going to continue to see you, even if the two of you quickly have sex. Approaching one-night stands like they are one-night stands is the main mistake most men make. They treat them as random encounters and focus too much on the verbal aspect of it. If you really want to quickly have sex with most of the women out there, you should make them feel like the two of you are going to be together after the initial encounter. Not like you are going to be some random guy that disappears when the night is over. You can be indirect or direct; it’s just not going to matter. Give her a lot of intimate eye contact and touch, and she’s going to feel like she’s already in a relationship with you, and that is what’s required for most women before they are willing to have sex with you.
One thing I forgot to mention, is that this won’t make a girl like you. It won’t make her be OK with you touching her. If she’s not feeling you, she’s not feeling you. Trying to touch her a lot isn’t going to change her mind. I don’t want anyone catching a charge and trying to snitch on me, saying I told them to do it. Just keep that in mind.