If you’re a guy with decent social skills and decent-looking, then I’m sure that you’ve slept with either a girl who you met online, a girl from the suburbs, a girl that doesn’t do the whole club thing, or a girl that is just busy with her career. Chances are, if she liked you, she slept with you on the first date. Have you ever given thought as to why she slept with you so fast? I already know that you’re thinking “because she’s a total slut, jump, whore”, but you’re wrong. I use to think the same thing but the majority of those women are not sluts. I know that from the women who don’t do the whole club thing and the busy women that I’ve slept with, I’ve never really gotten the slut vibe from them. If they aren’t sluts, then why did they sleep with you so fast? Think about their lives for a second. If a woman doesn’t live or hangout downtown, anywhere near a major college campus, has kids, or is busy with her career, chances are, she never meets any men, at least not any decent-looking ones. She pretty much sees the same men that she works with every day and men within her small social circle of friends.What this means, is that she has very little to no relationship prospects. Here we have women that most likely want relationships, but since they aren’t in a position to meet a lot of men like the campus girls, the bar girls, or the girls that live downtown, they rarely, if ever, meet any qualified men. In turn, this leaves them kind of desperate. Not because they can’t attract men, but simply because there aren’t a lot to choose from due to their lifestyle. How does this relate to one-night stands and sex on the first date? Most women want a relationship more than anything else in life. What do you think a woman who never meets men due to her lifestyle choices is going to do when after months, and maybe even years, she finally meets a decent-looking guy that has relationship potential? She’s going to do everything in her power to keep him around and make him a boyfriend. What do almost all women offer men when they want something from them badly? They offer them SEX. When you have a woman who has accepted that a decent guy only comes along once every few months, or maybe even once every few years, when she runs across one, she is going to quickly have sex with him in an effort to keep him. While a woman who lives downtown, on campus, or frequents bars constantly meets men, she rarely, if ever, meets a decent one. To her, coming across a decent guy that isn’t bad-looking is kind of like hitting the mega millions. For her, she can’t afford to risk such a guy slipping away and will quickly has sex with him in an effort to keep him. This should help you understand which types of women you should be pursuing if sex is your main goal with women (it shouldn’t be, but do your thing ). The girl that you see downtown, or at a bar can afford to hold out on sex simply because she meets men more frequently and doesn’t have to give up sex if she doesn’t want to. For her, desperation never sets in. For the woman who just doesn’t do the whole bar thing, or rarely gets to meet decent men due to her lifestyle, she can’t afford to risk holding out on sex when a decent guy comes along.
AfterThought: This was the case with several women that slept with me on the first night. They would quickly sleep with me, and shortly after, they would tell me that they wanted a relationship with me. I want to you switch it up and forget about what you heard about one night stands. When you’re thinking about one-night stands, focus on the women that are most likely going to want a relationship badly. They never meet decent men, so they will exchange whatever it takes for a boyfriend, and in most cases, women exchange what they think men want the most: SEX.