Pleasing women gets such a bad rap. The main reason for this is that men confuse it with simping (cupcaking) and putting women on pedestals. However, there is a huge difference between pleasing a woman, and simping (cupcaking). If you know how to please a woman, she will love you to death and do anything that you ask of her, but if you supplicate to her, she will despise you. How do you please a woman? Make everything all about her. When I’m talking to a woman, I make the conversation all about her. When I’m having sex with a woman, I make it all about her satisfaction. If I know that a girlfriend likes certain things, or likes things done a certain way, I do them, and I do them the way that she likes them done. More importantly, I do them without her having to ask or tell me to do it. How are you suppose to know what she likes or wants done without her having to ask or tell you? Well, if you make your conversations all about her, then you’ll know what she likes, and if you pay attention to how she reacts when you do things, then you’ll know how she likes things done. You should never complain about pleasing her, or expect anything in return. This will kill any joy that she gets from having you do these things. If you always expect something in return, she’ll feel like a prostitute, and no woman wants to feel like a prostitute, unless she has some kind of sexual prostitution fantasy. Simping (cupcaking) isn’t doing what a woman likes. It’s doing it with the expectation of gaining something in return. You never want to be chasing what she wants after she complains about it. You want to do it before she says anything about it. If she says something, then two seconds later you’re scrambling to do what she wants all of the time, then it becomes obvious to her that you are placing her on a pedestal. However, if you’re doing it before she says anything about it, if you’re doing it without expectation of anything in return, if you’re doing it because she has already showed that she respects you, she will be pleased, and will do whatever it takes to please you.