First, let me give you a little background on me and my sexual history. As some of you know, I had my first sexual experience around the age of 8 or 9 messing around with my babysitter. I officially lost my virginity sometime in middle school. That being said, I’ve had a lot of sexual experience. Some good, some bad. During all these years, I’ve had plenty of time to experiment, try new things, and draw different conclusions. What is the most important thing you need to do right now? Throw out everything you know about sex. Guys read these sex books, try out a few of these techniques, and think that they’re a God that can please any women if they use them. If there’s anything that I’ve learned that I must emphasize, is that when it comes to sex, ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT. Melissa likes it when you finger fuck her with that “come hither” motion. Well, guess what? Jessica probably won’t like fingers in her at all. Jen loves it when you just grab her, bend her over, and fuck her in her ass. Well, Amy doesn’t like anything in her ass. In fact, she doesn’t like being handled roughly at all. How do you learn about sex if there’s no real point in studying techniques and methods? Just like picking up women, sex is all about experience. The only way you’re really going to learn, is by having a lot of sex, with different types of women. You have to learn how to read women. Hands down, this is more important than any technique, trick, words, or whatever. How do you go about doing that? Here are some helpful tips:
1. Find out about her life background
She have a troubling background? Then don’t be surprised if she wants you to do some crazy, off the wall shit. Really into theater; artsy background? Can you say role play? The point is, what she tells you about her life will tell you what she likes in bed. She’s not going to flat-out say it, but learn to connect the dots. This goes back to LISTENING.
2. Read her body language
You must pay attention to the way she reacts to what you are saying and doing. Don’t be the guy that starts asking her a million questions during sex, she’s going to be turned off. Pay attention to her moans and body movements when you do certain things.
3. Never treat her like a lifeless robot
All women are built differently. In other words, don’t try to force techniques on her. Like I said before, what one girl really likes, another girl may hate. If she says she doesn’t like something, or isn’t reacting positively, don’t try to convince her or yourself that it feels good because some book told you it does.
4. Pay attention to her mood
If she’s sad, then you might want to take things slow. She may need to be wooed, caressed, and spoken to romantically. You may need to light a candle and put on that 112 cd. However, if she’s acting bitchy, or aggressive, now is not the time to be a Romeo. It’s time to rip her clothes off, pull her hair and beat the pussy up.
Afterthought: Sexual books and techniques make for good GENERAL knowledge, but they are not designed for pleasing the individual woman and will never make up for actual long-term experience.