Everyone knows there is a huge flake rate when it comes to the women that you meet in clubs. We’ve all came up with our on conclusions as to why women flake so much. I could give a million reasons why women in clubs flake so much, but what I do know for sure, is that there is something that absolutely needs to happen if you’re hoping to get a date. Before we get to it, what is it that you absolutely must do on the first date if you’re ever hoping to get a second date? You have to kiss the girl. It isn’t always the case (little 50 but look how that shit ended haha), but it is a general rule. A kiss doesn’t guarantee a second date, but it gives women enough information to decide whether or not to go on a second date with you. Why do so many women feel like they need to kiss you? I think it lets them know that you are confident and not a spineless wimp. Also, it gives women a brief glimpse of how you are in bed. If you are a good kisser, then you are probably good in bed. A kiss also lets women know how compatible you are. It gives women enough information to decide whether or not to see you again. How does all this relate to clubs? Getting physical serves the same purpose. I’m not necessarily talking about a kiss, but rather, just touching as a couple would touch in public, whether it’s sitting very close together, holding hands, putting your arm around each other, or a giving a simple non-sexually aggressive kiss. If none of this happens, or if you do it and the woman isn’t comfortable with it, then I can just about guarantee that no matter how many phone numbers she gives you, you will never be anything more than a friend, at best. Getting physical with women that you meet in clubs is an absolute necessity. Without getting physical, most women will not have enough information to decide whether or not to see you again. The more that your interaction feels like an interaction she would have with a boyfriend, the more likely she is to want to see you again. It is for that reason why you absolutely must be physical with women in clubs. Without that physical connection, you are dead in the water.
Afterthought: I get most of my physical contact while I’m dancing with a girl. I’m a great dancer (that’s what I’ve been told) so why not use that to my advantage. We’re already touching, rubbing and grinding. I’m not telling you to start going crazy and start putting your hand up skirts and dresses (relax thirsty). Start with light touching on the thighs and work it from there. If you can’t dance, learn or re-read this post ten times.