I sent out my standard first message and she hooked. Damn this girl is on it. She sends me a chat request within 20 minutes of receiving my standard message. From the look of her profile I know she is DTF (down to fuck). I accept her request and we chopped it up. Great another girl who has a kid. “WTF is wrong with me? Is it something in my profile? Is it the mention of hanging out with my two nieces?” She tells me she love to cook and likes how I mention cooking in my profile. She goes on to tell me if I’m serious about my first date proposal she is all about it. I’m not thirsty so I just ignore that and keep chopping it up with her. It wouldn’t be right if she didn’t hit me with a shit test. This is the same one I’m getting from single mothers. “Is it a problem that I have a kid?” The way you answer this question will be the difference between smashing and signing off tight and going to watch
porn ESPN. I’ve already outlined how to answer any question like this a girl throws your way. You can change it to fit any scenario:race, background, kids. ANYTHING will work with this response. I tell her “I’ve been really lucky. I’ve dated single mothers in the past. I’m even still friends with some of them. But I’ve heard some horror stories from my friends, it seems a lot of single mothers are crazy.” She will then ask you what you mean by that. Preparation is key “I don’t really want to get into my friends personal lives but the women became clingy, wanting them to take over the father’s role. PTA meeting, sports events, practice, etc…This is only after 3 months” This will have her qualify herself to you and let her know that you’re not here to play step daddy. After I passed that shit test everything else was easy. I sent her my number close and she was all about it. I have a picnic set up with her. To be continued….
I know you guys are saying why a picnic? This nigga is cupcaking with an obvious slut. Putting too much syrup in the game. I’ve always been a romantic at heart. This is something I can’t help. I just go about it differently. A lot of girls have never been on a picnic before. This is a great way for me to stand out and be different. The picnic will cost me $24 and I found a park that is open (after dark) 5 mins from my crib. This doesn’t mean I get to the picnic with roses and love songs. I act like a MAN that knows what he wants and play it cool. I show her a good time and with escalating the right way, the rest is history!