Tell me if this sounds familiar: You’re out, you have a girl genuinely into you, she gives you her phone number, and then she doesn’t pickup or return your call? I’m not referring to guys who force phone numbers from women that really aren’t into you. That’s lame and you have to cut that shit out. I’m only referring to when a girl seems to really like you. I’ll tell you something that I’ve been aware of, but never really acknowledged: women do not like it when you don’t pursue them like you really want them. If you’re a guy, especially an attractive guy, when you don’t pursue a woman very soon after she gives you her phone number, she’s going to think that you’re a player and want nothing to do with you. A woman who has a lot of male options, will forget about you and start thinking about a newer guy. When a woman has other options, and you try to toy around with her, she will not hesitate to move on to the next guy. Almost every woman wants a guy that will actually pursue her immediately and not try to turn it into a game. The stronger types of women, or women that may be into you, but not enough to put up with your shit, will almost always pick up on your game playing and quickly move on to the next guy. These women are not as dumb as you think they are. When you try to play that “wait three days” or whatever game, they are very savvy to it. This is the main reason why a lot of phone numbers go bad. Men wait too long to call. These women know that you’re either playing games, you’re too afraid to call (showing a lack of confidence), or you’re putting them off for another girl. When you’re talking to a girl, and she seems genuinely into you, make sure that you call her the very next day, AT THE LATEST, and set up a date (if I met her during the day, I’d probably contact her that night). It shows that you are really interested in her, it shows that you aren’t playing games, and it shows that you aren’t putting her off for another girl. Not only that, but you’re calling her when you are still fresh on her mind and not just a blur that she no longer cares about. We tend to think that we should wait to call women, and it’s a very terrible way to go about things. What sense does it make to wait on calling a girl who is ALREADY INTO YOU. Do you think she’s going to say “he called me the very next day, so I don’t like him anymore”? I don’t know a single girl who will all of a sudden not like a guy because he actually cared enough to call the next day. Women may not like it when you stalk them, but they appreciate it when you actually make an effort to show them that you are serious about seeing them again.
I make contact with every phone number I get within 24 hrs. Even if I don’t see her right away, I let her know I’m interested in seeing her again. Don’t wait that three days bullshit and start calling girls. Well if you decide to wait don’t be surprised if she’s with someone who didn’t wait to call.