After the debacle with losing all those numbers, I took a hard look at what I was doing and knew something had to change. I decided on a different way to screen/qualify women to see if they will just flake on me. How do I determine whether or not a woman will be the flakey type? I do it by looking at whether or not a woman is responsible. You see, a woman with very little or no responsibility is VERY likely to be a flakey woman. This is the type of woman to pass out her phone number with no intention of ever going out on a date with 99% of the men she gives her phone number to. Why are irresponsible women so flakey? They’re flakey because as long as they have very little or no responsibility, they will hold out in the dating market for their Prince. What incentive would make a woman take men more seriously? Responsibility. When a woman has a stressful full-time job, she’s not trying to go out, party, and compete for attention. She’s tired from work, and she really just wants a guy to come home and talk to or, someone that’ll take her to a nice quiet dinner or movie where she can relax. When a woman has to pay for her own car, an apartment on her own, and pay for the rest of her bills, she’s most likely not going to have a lot of expendable income to party with. When she has her own car, apartment, career, and all of her friends are starting to get married, what do you think is going to be on her mind? Partying all of the time and flaking on every guy she gives her phone number to? Fuck No! She’s going to start taking guys a lot more seriously. When you go after women that have almost no responsibility, and their parents are paying some of, if not all of their bills, then you’re dealing with a woman that doesn’t take men seriously. This is the type of girl who flakes on guys all of the time, parties a lot, probably only has a part-time job (if she’s even working at all), and is holding out on her Prince simply because there is no real incentive for her to settle down with a guy who isn’t. How do you start using this tonight? You can target women who look like they have a lot of responsibility in their life. These are usually the women who are over the age of 25. Unless they are in graduate school, by then, they are usually paying for their own apartment, car, and other miscellaneous bills. This doesn’t mean that women under the age of 25 aren’t responsible, and it doesn’t mean that women over the age of 25 are responsible. That’s why really, you just want to ask the right screening questions. If she has a full-time job, sounds like she pays all of her bills, and doesn’t go out to nightclubs/bars often, then chances are, you’re dealing with a woman who is responsible, and therefore, most likely won’t flake on you if you’ve been talking to her for a while and she gives you her phone number. If you’re talking to a girl who is still in school, sounds like she has a part-time job (if she’s even working), sounds like she goes out to bars and nightclubs often, or it seems like mommy and daddy are paying for a portion of her bills, then you’re likely dealing with a girl who has very little, or no responsibility. That girl is a waste of your time and don’t be surprise if she flakes on you if you’re not her Mr. Perfect.