You’ve probably been out gaming. You’ve also probably had a countless number of women flake on you, ignore you, walk away from you, or just be flat-out rude to you. Thinking about that, I have realized that there is a point that hasn’t been emphasized in the seduction community. That point is that game begins with initial attraction. I don’t care how many game guides you study, if you can’t manage to get attraction with women before you even approach, then you don’t stand a chance. What is initial attraction? It is the attraction that a woman feels for you before you say one word. It may not be strong, but it is still attraction. This is enough attraction to spark a woman’s interest in what you have to say. If guys don’t have that initial attraction, then their approaches will ultimately go nowhere. However, if the guy approaches and the girl has a huge smile on her face, as if she is happy that he talked to her, then almost any style of game or technique will work. When there is no initial attraction, none of that stuff seems to work. This is exactly why the bulk of your game needs to be focused around building that initial attraction. Initial attraction is the difference between a guy who pulls all of the time, and a guy that never really gets anywhere with women. Most of you are probably thinking “only looks will help initial attraction” Yes and no. Initial attraction isn’t based purely on looks. It can be based on a number of things. For example, if you aren’t the best looking guy, you can get initial attraction by being popular, being seen with women who appear to be enjoying your company (usually hot women in your social circle or women you’ve hooked up with before). Basically the guy that looks like he is having a lot of fun. Remember, you’re not going anywhere until you figure out how to get initial attraction. If you’re just going out and approaching, without knowing what you have to get initial attraction, then you are setting yourself up for failure. From the very start of your interactions, women are going to be thinking about how to get rid of you. Even if you manage to force a phone number out of them, they will have no intention of ever letting you game them. They are going to be closed off to your attempts to build attraction. This means a number that is worthless. You will NEVER get her to agree to see you agin. If you have that initial attraction, women will open up, and let themselves be gamed by you, and in turn, be attracted, as long you’re not to cheesy and obvious. Before you take another step out to game, figure out your initial attraction game plan, whether it’s your looks, flashing money, being popular, whatever. Women will decide whether or not to let themselves be attracted to you based on initial attraction alone.
Afterthought: Initial attraction doesn’t guarantee anything. All it means is that women will be open to letting you game them. Initial attraction can be canceled out when a woman is presented with too many options, like an overcrowded bar.