Don’t Stop Til You Get Enough- Approach Until You Are Successful

 
Why would I be advocating the numbers game? Rejection and what it does to your ego. For an unattractive guy, it makes no sense to keep getting rejected, because he will never see success, or will have to approach upwards of a hundred women before getting one take down. That’s hardly worth the effort and the damage that it does to one’s ego. That guy needs to work on his appearances and basic social skills. For an attractive guy with basic social skills, it’s a different story. He will see success sooner rather than later. As long as he keeps approaching, he is almost guaranteed to get a girl who is into him. This makes the previous rejections irrelevant. For him, the rejection is worth it. He sees enough success that the rejections don’t really do any damage to his psyche. What is far more damaging to one’s psyche, is lingering rejection. If he decides to talk to a girl and gets rejected, and he sits on it, it’s almost impossible for him to approach another woman. If he calls it a day or night without seeing a success, that lingering rejection will destroy him. He will have a difficult time mustering up the will to approach women the next time he goes out. It’s for that reason that attractive guys have to approach until they see success. For an unattractive guy, it isn’t the same story. If he keeps approaching, things just keep getting worse. He starts to feel horrible about himself, and eventually, he hates guys who are successful with women and he starts to hate women. For the unattractive guy, for the sake of his psyche, he is better off not playing the numbers game. Constantly approaching and getting rejected will turn him into a very bitter man. If you think about it, no guy should ever get to the point where he is playing a big numbers game. The attractive guy will see success sooner rather than later, and the unattractive guy just needs to go back to the drawing board before too much damage is done to his psyche. The pain of rejection will destroy the unattractive guy, however, for the attractive guy, it will only destroy him if he lets it linger. For an attractive guy, he is better off approaching until he can leave with a success.
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About The Reemachronicles

This blog is about the great NY dating scene. My focus will be on improving your overall greatness, the online dating game, some fashion tips and just other random thoughts helping guys get better with women. I will even give you updates on the current women in my life. Get on for the crazy ride that is my life.
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