As one begins game and goes through the different stages of learning the ins and outs, the only full proof way to improve and get better is an experience mixed with the combination of trial and error. Like anything else in life making as many mistakes as possible is one of the fastest ways to learn and become better at anything. There are no short cuts to it. You can take game advice, read every book and blog, spend thousands of dollars on workshops but at best all you will get is an outline on how game works from the view-point of one person. Every man must follow his own path to understanding his personal strengths to get women. I can tell you what’s been working for me. Here is some shit to help you step your game up.
1. Date different types of women
Date all races, different occupations, those with different economic backgrounds, foreign and domestic. Do it more than once. It’s easy for us to get caught up in generalizations from what we hear from other guys and even our friends. You have to find out what type of girl works best for you and how different types of girls will treat and react to your game. Even if you have a natural preference for a certain type, you’ll never know when you’ll have to use your game to wingman for a buddy.
2. Date older women
If you’re a guy under 26 (I am)…you don’t know shit first of all (or not as much as you think you do). But most importantly you don’t know shit about having an adult conversation on a date. You won’t learn this from going on dates with girls who watch Jersey Shore and Gossip Girl. Also if she’s under 26 herself she doesn’t know shit either. Going on a date with and spitting game to older women is the quickest way to learn how to hold an interesting adult conversation. Learning conversation flow and being able to speak to life experiences years above where you’re at is crucial to seduction. Another use for this is the ability to say you’ve dated older women to women you’re own age or younger. You will appear mature by association and the competition juices will flow.
Do you need money or to be rich to be good at game? No. But that shit won’t hurt. You do need to be in the best shape you can be. Yes you can be out of shape and a fat slob, but why start at a disadvantage? Think of your body as another tool for seduction. It’s one of the few things you can change and manipulate to help improve your odds of attraction. Also if you’re some fat guy and for some reason you think because you know game you deserve a dime peace then get at the end of the line, the shit starts back there.
4. Fuck your standards, (Just smash & dash a.k.a Pussy gets Pussy)
Too many guys get into this shit thinking they’ll be pulling the baddest girls on the reg with one eye open. You will go on a cold streak. At these times it’s best to lower your standards to break the streak to get rid of that sexual gorilla on your back. Once this is done you can get back to gaming the best of the best. Something changes in a male who’s recently gotten some. A calm and ease comes over you that most women just pick up on. Your timing and confidence improve. The girls won’t have a clue of who or what the last girl you fucked looked like, they can just tell you’re the type of guy who has sex…a lot. This is the universal law of pussy getting pussy. Don’t even get me started on when you have to wing and take one for the team. Every man at some point in their life must fall on a grenade. I shouldn’t have to tell you not get caught by bad chicks gaming whack shit, this is for the last call no witness type shit!
5. Choose your battles while gaming women
The better you become the more frequent and often girls will shit test you. Some of them being pumped & dumped scorned in the past will have a chip on their shoulders and use your attempted pickup as their chance for revenge or payback. Don’t be surprised if you get a little bitchy comment. When this happens she’s probably not that interested. DO NOT take this as your chance to start a verbal smack down to prove how much of a giant bitch she is or a war of the sexes to take down feminism once and for all. The biggest waste of your time is giving some dumb feminist the pleasure of arguing in public. That time wasted is time that you could have spent actually gaming a woman who likes penis. Simply just keep it moving.
6.Don’t roll with an Entourage
One or maybe two wingman at the most is the absolute number you need when out “trying to get some”. Anymore than that and the numbers just don’t work. The chances of finding a large group of girls that are all single and looking for some dick decrease with the more girls that are in the group. When you roll with a large group of guys that’s more people who have input on the next location to go or what time to leave the location you’re at now. Another thing working against a large group of guys is to worry about what all of the other guys will think about the girl you choose to approach. No guy wants to approach a less attractive girl than his friends standards (which will all know can & will be all over the map). This just leads to no guy approaching any girls and rather everyone taking a passive approach. It’s cool if you want to just catch up with all your boys at one time and enjoy a beer and guy time. At some point pick one or two and peace out to prowl.
Be patient with yourself and be patient with game. There will come a time when you literally won’t have enough time to go on a date with all the women you meet in one weekend. You’ll have to spend less time with your boys because you have dates scheduled. Where you hope the date you’re on doesn’t end with a bang because the next day you have another date with a freakier girl and you need to save up an impressive load (ok I know I’m pushing it haha). This will happen but it won’t happen overnight.