2015 Game Rules

I’m back with some new game rules. It’s been a minute but who cares. Let’s jump right in.

 1. You Will Finally Fix Your Conversation Skills- Conversation skills is a basic foundation for your game. A lot of guys still can’t talk. You can’t even say three words and articulate yourself correctly. That shit has to stop. It’s time to read more books, listen to great speakers, even learn another language if you have to. It’s not that women don’t want to give you a chance. Most of times they just don’t understand what you are saying to give you a chance. Basic articulation is going to give you a head start. When I was in the dating game, I would get good cooperation from women just by speaking clearly and properly. I wasn’t even saying anything crazy. They could respect that and it worked. Also, practice speaking to everyone not just women. Practice will always make perfect.

2. You Will Not Talk At Women- This goes hand in hand with conversation skills. A lot guys just go up to women and start asking them a bunch of random questions. “You gotta man?” “Okay can I take you out?” “I live with my mom but she’s away so come over?” “You have instagram?” “Twitter?” “You don’t mind if I like all your pictures right?” Some of you damn near verbally assault women with the way you speak to them. That’s played out and corny. You have to know how to engage women. Not doing this will limit your game. You can’t keep scaring women away. A basic step when engaging women is you talk and then listen. Talk and then listen. Start with that.

3. Accept Good Cooperation- It’s time to be able to recognize when a woman is choosing you. You will never be able to accept good cooperation unless you get 100% comfortable with just letting women choose you. I understand that this may throw you off your game because you want to go after her and be the pursuer. The best way to put yourself in a position for her to choose you is to just post up and have a good time with whoever you’re with.  When I would go out with the crew, we would make a bubble and pick women off. Women will always find reasons to approach us and strike up conversation. That still happens right now but we’re all in relationships so nothing moves forward. Now on the flip side I was not able to accept good cooperation at first. You read my simp stories. I will never forget this one girl. After some good conversation, she just invited me to her place. This caught me off guard and I said no (I know I’m a loser). I figured she was trying to set me up. I ran into her a few weeks later and she invited me over again. Of course I said yes and proceeded to hit that. Learn from my mistakes. Accept good cooperation.

4. No Physical Barriers On First Dates- Some guy recently emailed me and asked me if it was okay to go to the movies on a first date. Some dating advisors or whatever people go by will tell you absolutely not but I’m saying go for it. You can do whatever you want to do as long as it doesn’t create any physical barriers. The goal when you first meet someone is to establish chemistry. You can’t do that unless you can feel her energy and vibe with her on a personal level.  This is why dinner dates are a bad idea. Dinner should be for someone you have already established chemistry with. Also I see people doing double and even triple dates. That’s even worst. You need to see what the deal is one and one. You need to focus on being active and able to touch each other.  I’m pretty sure a lot of you will take this too far and start openly groping women. Don’t catch a charge and say I told you to touch her as much as possible. Of course balance is key.

5. Never Allow Her To Put You In A Thirst Bag- Men being thirsty is like the new thing. I still don’t know when it became okay for men to act this way. You see it everyday on social media. I can’t even use twimping anymore (simping on Twitter) its way past that now. I see a lot of guys thanking women for accepted them on Facebook which has to be the lamest thing to do. With the thirst epidemic, women will test you to see if you will be in the thirst bag and just available for attention or if you’re a real dude who she would be interested in dating. She may say, “hey I think I have a stain on my pants. Does my butt look okay?” Thirsty you will say, “nope you know what to do with that big fat butt. Can I touch it to investigate?” Someone true to the game will just play it off like, “yeah you good. Anyway what else is going on with you?” She will know what you’re about and you will be on your way with her.

Keep following the game rules and as long as you respect the game, it will work for you. Until we meet again…

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2014 in review

I didn’t post nearly as much as I wanted to. I’m changing that for 2015 because I have a lot to talk about and we need this game more than ever. Of course sluts ruled the year again. Also, thanks to everyone who commented, emailed and shared. I will be back next week with my 2015 game rules.

Here’s an excerpt:

Madison Square Garden can seat 20,000 people for a concert. This blog was viewed about 62,000 times in 2014. If it were a concert at Madison Square Garden, it would take about 3 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

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Using The Religion Of Game…Tips on Making Sure The Game Works For You

Oh shit, I’m back! It’s all about how you finish. I’m finishing the year strong with heavy game for you guys. Let’s just jump right in. Are you treating the game like a religion? Men who have trouble dealing with women aren’t treating the game like a religion. They’re not worshiping the game. They only take bits and pieces of the game and hope that it works. The game just doesn’t work that way. You have to worship the game. You have to take the game serious enough where it’s like a religion to you. You can’t read one of my posts and then say well this didn’t work. No shit it didn’t work. You didn’t internalize the game. You didn’t believe in it. I don’t play around with the game. It’s serious to me. I live by the game. I don’t say one thing and do the complete opposite. This is a religion to me. If you play around with the game, you will get play around results. When you dedicate yourself to something, it will work. That’s in all aspects of life. It doesn’t matter what it is. It will definitely work. That’s how the game is. If you dedicate yourself you will good cooperation. You will even be able to see the outcome before it happens.  With me for example; I know that if I meet a woman at a social setting and she gives me 30 seconds of her time, I’m getting her. All I need is an opportunity. If you meet a woman and she says she has a man or brushes you off you can’t do anything about that. She could have a million things going on and I understand that. I don’t let that bother me. I keep on moving forward. Again, all I need is an opportunity. I know my game is going to work. That’s how dedicated I am to the game. Let me give you some questions you should be asking yourself to determine how serious you are about the game.

Do you know your value? Do you know what you bring to the table? If you are dealing with raggedy women, you really don’t know your value and that’s a problem. When you deal with women, you MUST know how her life will be better by messing with you. If you don’t know that the game is not going to work for you. See I know what I bring to the table. I know what I have to offer and how that will upgrade any women’s life. Women feel that vibe and give me good cooperation.  Everyone has something to bring to the table. You just have to figure out what it is.

Are you a leader? When you deal with women you have to take control of the conversation and control the vibe. You can’t be indecisive. You have to bold enough to give women instructions. You must have an agenda. A lot of you just want to see where things go. Leaders have specific agendas. When you are meeting women you should be thinking about a wifey, jump-off, side check, one night stand or female friend. This way,  whoever doesn’t fit your agenda can be charged to the game. If you’re looking for wifey,  you are not going to talk to jump-offs and vive versa. When you don’t know what you want, you can’t expect a woman to give you anything. She can’t give you something that you don’t know you want. A leader knows what he wants and goes and gets it. You need to do the same.

Am I Being Myself? When you worship something, you can really just be yourself. You don’t have to add any extras to fit in. When using the religion of game, you have to comfortable in your own skin. This will help the way you interact with women because you’re not going to try to be someone who you’re not. You won’t try to add extras to impress her.  Women for the most part know when a man is being real. They can tell when you are just full of shit. Lying to women to have sex is corny as hell. You don’t have to do any of that. Doing unnecessary things for gratification is not being true to the game. It’s all about finding someone who is going to be cooperative with who YOU are. Be comfortable in your own skin!

A lot of guys trick and simp as a religion. You worship that and take it very serious. You set aside a tricking/simping fee. You have to go to the strip club, you have to buy drinks for random women, you have to pay half her rent. Take that same energy and apply it to being true to the game. Until we meet again….

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3 Years!

Can’t believe it’s been three years since I started the chronicles. When I first started writing it was just to chronicle my online dating stories and trails. From my simp stories to my sex stories, the past three years have been fun. You guys were all with me when I found wifey. She’s doing good by the way. We’re living together doing what we do. For all my guys starting out, you have three years of good game to soak up. Also, I get plenty of emails from women who tell me they now have a dude because of the chronicles. Well I’m planning on writing for another three years. Keep the emails coming and Until we meet again….

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Reema Text Game…Summer Game Series

Text game is going to be the first installment of the summer game series. The summer series is going to upgrade your game on texting, more conversation tips, treating the game like religion, date ideas and some summer fashion. Ok, let’s get into text game. Honestly, I’m not big into texting. I’ve always been a phone guy. I rather hear someone’s voice so I can get a better feel for them. Texting is a quick way to keep women interested and a quick way to set up dates. Texting doesn’t work when you add unnecessary extras. A lot of guys get caught up with what time to text, what to say, how long to respond. All you really need to do is focus on a few basic things and you will never have any issues. I call this Reema Text Game:

1. No Emojicons- As a man, you MUST keep it playa at all times. I see a lot of guy’s texting women a bunch of smiley faces, hearts and a bunch of other images. Some are even having complete conversation with emojis. If you send women stuff likeEmojiEmoji EmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmojiEmoji please kill yourself.  That’s goofy for a dude to send women shit like that. Also, NO good morning text. You don’t need to do any of that.

2. Setting Up The Meet Up- So you met this cutie and she gave you her number. Conversation was flowing and you told her you would hit her up when you were free so you guys could get together. Two of my favorites were, “I hope you had a relaxing weekend. I’m grabbing a glass of wine later…you should join me.”….”Hey (nickname), Monday is wine night at (place). Join me for a drink tonight so we can start the week with a bit of fun.” 

These texts are letting her know that you’re going out anyway and she’s just joining you. No pressure. Women don’t like pressure. They want everything to be easy-going and you should want the same.  It puts her in a relax state of mind. The nickname is a great way for you to separate yourself from other guys. It’s always about doing everything different. Remember, you give nicknames to people you are cool with. Giving her a nick name speeds up the comfort part. For a nickname just add little in front of it. For wifey she was Little Lucille Ball, I had Little Mariah, Little Crumbs, etc. Also, what girl doesn’t like wine? If she tells you she doesn’t like wine that might be a chargeable offense haha. Nah, just tell her you will let her try a few new things she will definitely like. I didn’t address what to say if she doesn’t respond because who cares. If she doesn’t respond it doesn’t matter. She’s charged to the game. If you’re serious about the game, you should have a few women you are dealing with at all times. This way you don’t care if she’s not looking to get together. You will just hit up someone else. Don’t be a simp. Only simps get butt hurt (my new favorite word) if a woman doesn’t want to see them. Follow these two easy steps and you have better text game. Until we meet again…


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Supreme Court upholds ban on affirmative action in college admissions

The 6-2 decision upheld a Michigan constitutional amendment that bans preferential treatment based on race, gender, ethnicity or national origin. The ban on affirmative action applies not only to admissions decisions at public colleges, but also to state hiring and contracting practices.

I keep telling everyone that Jim Crow 2.0 is going on right now. The crazy thing about this is that White women and Asians get the most affirmative action benefits and these “minority” benefits. Anytime you hear about affirmative action or minority, the dominant society shows/talks about Black people. That’s the chess behind it. Minority doesn’t mean Black. Now when you have no black people enrolled in the school and no Black people being hired for state jobs they can say,  “They just didn’t qualify”. This is even more of a reason to start being independent of the system.

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The Black Elite

In my last post I spoke about how it’s time to start distancing ourselves from coons. Black people who start deflecting and coming up with smoke screens when it’s time to talk about replacing the system of white supremacy, with a system of justice. What a lot of Black people don’t know is that in every city big or small, you have the Black Elite. The Black Elite is broken down into five groups. All working different angles with the same goal. To deflect from the goal of having a system of justice. Now when I say a system of justice, I just mean everything being on an even playing field. No special treatment for any groups. The Black Elite has already sold out. They have no interest in helping the Black community. They’re only job is to get a nice check and control progress. Nothing more, nothing less. Let’s break down the different parts of the black elite

Church- This is the most dangerous division of the Black elite. Certain pastors use the church to keep you sleeping. All week you’re ready for a change. All week you can’t wait to get to church to talk about ways to organize and discuss ways to hold our elect officials accountable. Instead you get a sleeping pill. For hours you hear that the best way to fix your problems is to pray and give the church money. Every time you ask about solutions all you hear is “Let’s pray on it.” “The lord will help us.” “God won’t let you struggle if he knew you couldn’t handle it.” What kind of backwards shit is that? How can you talk about heaven and you are teaching me to be comfortable living in hell. I don’t want to wait for after life. I want my heaven now.

Media- These are Black people who have radio shows, TV shows, newspapers, magazines and websites. Millions of us listen to them everyday. The two most popular Black websites are media takeout and world star hip hop. What do they talk about? Nothing of importance. Listen to your local radio station. What do they talk about? Nothing of importance.  Instead of talking about the graduation rate, you hear about what Beyonce did on vacation. You hear about how much money Rick Ross spent at the strip club.  You hear about the upcoming BET awards.

Academic- These are the Black people who work for your elementary schools, high schools, community colleges and universities. They’re job is deflect the influence the dominant society has in the schools. When you say,“Why my child in special Ed?” “Why my child not learning anything”. They say,”Because you’re poor”, “He listens to rap”, “His parents didn’t go to college.” We all know that has nothing to do with why our kids aren’t learning. Over 90% of teachers are middle-aged White women who could give two fucks if a Black child is learning. A majority of schools with 100% Black students have all White teachers. On the flip side you can not point out a school that is 100% White with Black teachers. It just doesn’t exist. Don’t you think there’s a reason behind that?

Insignificant Titles- These are Black people who have fancy ass titles. I’m the chief of police, captain at the fire department, council man, alderman, Vice President, deputy. They have nice business cards and even a parking space. Now what do they do for the everyday Black person? Absolutely nothing. Most of them have non-profit corporations that they use to take all of the resources. A grant comes in for 100k and 80k of it goes in their pocket. The IRS knows about this but they do nothing. Why would they? These people are keeping you sleeping. The dominant society knows they can give a Black person a title and they will walk around like the man. They will defend that title 100%

Money- These are black people in your city with money. When I say money, I mean multi millionaires. They have enough money to fund the after school program or build a community center. They have enough money where they could put some Black kids to work. Nope, can’t do that. But the YMCA gets a check. The boys and girls club gets a check. The urban league gets a check. Tsunami recovery gets a check. School shooting funds get a check. Hurricane Katrina? Nope, can’t do that.

Again, it’s time to distance ourselves from people like this. It’s time to stop being scared. This is why we can’t get any respect. Until we meet again…

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